You know I am an Ian fan no matter what. I want his happiness.
However IF and I say IF he is dating Nikki then the only reason I’m upset about it, despite the fact I wish it was Nina, is because this will be the second fucking time Nikki has pulled…
First off, no one said I have a say in their relationships. As I don’t. So don’t put words in my mouth. I think it’s just shitty and wrong and that’s why as a FAN, nothing to do with Ian, I don’t like it. It makes no difference to him what I or anyone else thinks. So I can have an opinion. The point is people bad mouthig those of us who don’t like it saying we’re not true fans because of it. Really? So to be a true fan you have to approve and agree with everything the person does? No. This is getting out of hand. The hatred on all ends. I’m not hating nor am I sending anyone hate mail. They will more than likely never see this post. It’s doing no harm. If he’s happy then power to him. I still think it’s shitty and I still dislike Nikki with a passion.
Secondly, what the hell difference does it make if I ship a TV couple? I think everyone forgets the fact Stefan also did the same with Katherine/Damon. Also I shipped Delena from the start because of the books. Is it shitty? Yeah. No one said it wasn’t. However, Stefan ended up being okay with it. Nina doesn’t seem too happy but who knows. Maybe she is! I don’t know. I’ve been in Nina’s shoes and I was destroyed by what happened. I’ve also made the mistake of being in Ian’s shoes and dating one of my ex’s best friends, more so because I didn’t realize how close they were and was too depressed to really care, however I regret it and would never do it again after seeing how badly it hurt my ex losing his friend. If they are together this is again the second time Nikki’s done it and hurt a friend so she clearly doesn’t care nor did she learn the first time round. That’s all.